133: In persuading the other that he has that which may complement us, we assure ourselves of being able to continue to misunderstand precisely what we lack.
And this serenity is the attitude behind a tolerance for victimless sex.
If you dont believe it, take a look at the ugly process of our divorce courts for a perfect example.Im not qualified to fly by instruments alone, so if I cant see where Im going, its just not safe.True love, therefore, forsakes the prestige offered by the culture in its illusions.A marine looses his key.Maybe you dont want to see the lost childrenconceived by mistakewho wander the world in confusion.True Love Her husband replies, Look.And to whom is the resentment directed?
When children grow up in a dysfunctional family environment an environment characterized by such things as dishonesty, criticism, manipulation, and violence the children are not actually in danger of being roasted in an oven and eaten, but they do experience a psychological devouring of their.If you are going to drink alcohol, I dont want you to bring alcohol into the house.Fear of Love B elieve it or not, most of us are brought up in modern culture to fear love.For example, I have seen both men and women who have tried to seduce a woman to get from her the nurturing and attention they never received from their mothers.None of this drive has anything to do with real love, except for the fact that, in all the arousal, real love is missing.Maybe you dont want to see the children who have to suffer the agony of their parents adultery and divorce.
In a similar way, a man who looks at the genitals of another man may be looking for the strength and protection his father did not give him; at the same time, he may be looking at the other man with an admiration that wanted.
In the clinical setting, many persons in psychotherapy will confess that, in their childhood and adolescence, they lacked a clear sense of what they wanted to do with their lives because they did not experience real love and guidance from their parents.